Why did I always try to fix things?
I tried to fix things because I knew deep down I wasn’t worthy of love (or so I thought at the time). Being the glue gave people a reason to love me and keep me around. It also gave me something to focus on, and distract myself from my own pain. Sometimes people asked me to fix things, but often I took it upon myself to step in.
What happens when you stop trying to fix yourself?
And more importantly, I feel better about what I get done. I’m happier, calmer, and feel more at peace with my life. If you want to shift your own self-criticism and free yourself from the tyranny of your Mean Marshmallow Man, stop trying to fix yourself and start trying to love yourself.
How can I fix myself and my Life?
In order to fix yourself and create self love in your life again, you’ll have to show that to yourself. If you’re constantly neglecting your health, appearance, feelings and peace of mind, you’ll be negative, discouraged and in a bad shape.
What to do when everything is going wrong in Your Life?
Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, it can feel like everything is going wrong. Life just feels bad, maybe even to the point where you want to crawl into bed for the rest of eternity. A much better option, however, is to look for ways to fix your life, start fresh, and maybe even try something new.
Do you need to stop trying to fix yourself?
Shannon, you should stop buying all that self-help crap and going off to retreats to find yourself. You are not perfect, never will be, and no one in the world is either. You make mistakes; we all do. Just live with it. You are a warm, intelligent woman—just live the best honest life you can.
In order to fix yourself and create self love in your life again, you’ll have to show that to yourself. If you’re constantly neglecting your health, appearance, feelings and peace of mind, you’ll be negative, discouraged and in a bad shape.
Why do people want to fix other people?
We’re confident that healing every sore spot we see is not only natural and enjoyable, but it’s the main reason we were put on this planet. When you carry the Nurturer Gene, fixing other people can easily become a destructive self-identity.
Is it possible to fix your marriage by fixing yourself?
Because, when you improve who you are as a man and how you’re showing up as a husband, you’re naturally going to produce a better marriage. Sure, a strong marriage is the result of the things that both you and your wife are doing but there’s nothing you can do about her. That’s why it’s best to focus on the one thing you can control – yourself.