Can you help someone who is not willing?
People have to come to where they need to be to get their lessons. You can’t help someone who is not willing. But you can love them through it. Send light and love and hold them in your heart space. I had to hit my own bottom and dead end to turn around and climb back up…when I was ready and willing. ~Karen Blake 3.
How can I help someone who won’t help themselves?
That internal conflict—those confused feelings and mixed motivations—would make it really difficult to offer the type of unbiased, loving support that would allow her to form her own insights if, in fact, she was ready to form them.
When to seek help for someone in need?
While, in most circumstances, it’s a good idea to give a friend time to come around to the idea of seeking help, if you think someone is in danger or is at risk as a result of what’s going on, it’s important that you seek help immediately.
Do you need the help of other humans?
Humans need the help from other humans to survive. If they are telling you not to help other people, that is not a good thing, which you most likely know. They have had times that they needed help and someone either did or didn’t step up. Bring that up to them, because someone helping is something they remember.
People have to come to where they need to be to get their lessons. You can’t help someone who is not willing. But you can love them through it. Send light and love and hold them in your heart space. I had to hit my own bottom and dead end to turn around and climb back up…when I was ready and willing. ~Karen Blake 3.
That internal conflict—those confused feelings and mixed motivations—would make it really difficult to offer the type of unbiased, loving support that would allow her to form her own insights if, in fact, she was ready to form them.
How can I help someone with a problem?
Remember the journey to accepting there is a problem is theirs alone. Though you can help prep the ground, by having discussions and listening with an open heart, by setting clear boundaries, by offering information when appropriate. For anyone who’s been in this position, you’re aware it takes more than one conversation. It takes many.
Why do some people don’t want help?
There are many reasons for not wanting help. Denial, shame, anosognosia (lack of insight, a symptom of psychosis itself). Regardless of the reason, as a family member or friend, it can feel powerless.