Can a person be the source of their problems?
Obviously it’s never fun or easy to engage in serious self-criticism, and self-improvement is really really hard, but there’s no other way forward if the source of your problems turns out to be you.
How to help someone with a mental health problem?
The person I care about is showing symptoms of a mental health condition. They are doing okay at home, work, or school, but not as easy as before. Something is “not right.” Encourage them to take a mental health screen, print the results out, and bring them to a doctor or a mental health provider.
How to get help for someone you care about?
The person I care about is starting to have trouble with family, friends, work, school or other areas of his or her life. Things are getting worse, and sometimes multiple problems are developing. Take a mental health screen, print the results out, and bring them to a doctor. Or discuss the results with a family member or close friend.
Why do people have trouble finding a job?
Most people present the reasons they are looking to leave their present job or the reasons that they left their last one from totally selfish, “I centered” points of view. They bad mouth and criticize their present or past employers and justify their own convictions, thinking that a prospective employer is going to identify with them.
What to do when you have a problem with someone?
When you feel angry or upset with someone, before you say something you might later regret, take a deep breath and count slowly to ten. In most circumstances, by the time you reach ten, you would have figured out a better way of communicating the issue, so that you can reduce, instead of escalate the problem.
Obviously it’s never fun or easy to engage in serious self-criticism, and self-improvement is really really hard, but there’s no other way forward if the source of your problems turns out to be you.
Why are some people so difficult to deal with?
A common pattern with difficult people (especially the aggressive types) is that they like to place attention on you to make you feel uncomfortable or inadequate. Typically, they’re quick to point out there’s something not right with you or the way you do things. The focus is consistently on “what’s wrong,” instead of “how to solve the problem.”
When do you think your partner is the problem?
If you think you’re guilty of putting your partner on the back burner, Fleming suggests “giving, sharing, appreciating and learning your partner’s love language ” to prove you’re still invested in the relationship. 2. You’re unhappy with yourself.