What is an appropriate amount to spend on a bridal shower gift?
The standard amount to spend on a bridal shower gift is around $50-$75. If you’re invited to a bridal shower but not particularly close with the bride, expect to spend at least $25. Regular friends, co-workers, or distant family members should consider spending up to $75 if they have the budget to spare.
Are gifts expected at a bridal shower?
Yes, if you are invited to a shower in addition to the wedding, you’re expected to bring a gift to the shower as well as send a wedding gift. If she’s been instructed to dissuade guests from bringing gifts, she will do just that.
What is the general rule for a gift that is appropriate for a couple’s shower?
General recommendations suggest you spend at least $50, between $75 and $100 if you’re a distant friend or co-worker and between $100 and $125 if you’re a close friend or relative. As with the bridal or wedding shower, consider how well you know the couple when budgeting for your gift.
Do bridesmaids give a bridal shower gift?
Yes, bridesmaids still need to purchase gifts for both the bridal shower and the wedding. If bridesmaids have a smaller budget to work with, they can also join forces to get the couple one nicer group gift.
Does the maid of honor pay for the bridal shower?
Today it’s the maid of honor and bridal party or the bride or groom’s mother who throws the bridal shower. Typically, whoever throws the event is the one must cover the costs. Often, the maid of honor and her fellow bridesmaids throw the bridal shower and pay for it, and the mother of the bride contributes.
How much should I spend on a bridal shower gift if not attending?
If you’re not attending a bridal shower, you technically don’t have to give a gift. However, if you’re particularly close with the bride (especially if you’re in the wedding party), you might consider sending a gift that costs between $25 and $75 anyway.